News and Events, Happenings and Musings at NACE - Covenant Christian School, Smithville, ON and John Knox Christian School, Stoney Creek, ON
Monday, December 4, 2017
Community calls for Compassion and Hospitality
Friday, November 17, 2017
Integrity
There is a host of ways we can think of integrity and many ways to define it, but at the heart of the word, is the kernel of honesty. I wonder if some of us think of integrity as doing the right things, or even to a more basic level 'to behave'. While this may be the case, we need also to acknowledge that we are a broken and fallen people. We mess up. Often. So what happens when we do? What does integrity look like when we fall short of acting in the right way or doing the right thing?
Many of you reading this will be familiar with the cartoon characters that pace about, trying to make a decision. On one shoulder sits a devil, and the other an angel, each whispering their encouragement to decide. Without making our day-to-day decisions too trivial, one step toward integrity is acknowledging that God is there to encourage and support our decisions.
Thankfully, God meets us at whatever point we are in our Christian walk. Paul outlines his own journey in his letter to the Galatians, and that struggle: Galatians 1:10 "Obviously, I'm not trying to win the approval of people, but of God. If pleasing people were my goal, I would not be Christ's servant." So even in a Christian community, we will find ourselves struggling with what is right.
The wisdom shared by the grade one student is apt here. Who are we trying to please? Ourselves? Others? What would God have us do?
If we are honest, we will need to acknowledge wrongdoing. We will also need to acknowledge that at times we twist and use others to our own benefit.
How, then, do we teach integrity to our students, and in the school community? We remind one another that we need to be forgiven, and we also extend forgiveness with encouragement to live for Christ, not for others. Integrity is continuing to grow in our choices so that they remain honest, no matter who is watching.
Proverbs 21:3 "To do what is right and just is more acceptable to the LORD than sacrifice."
The Heart of a Community
As I write this, large quantities of apples, pie crust and crumble, boxes piled high all await dozens of people who will cheerfully give of their time to make apple pies for our annual fundraiser. Others gave of their time these past two weeks to serve on a committee to get our Family Fun Fest going, or on the board of directors to chart our path forward. Volunteers spend time with kids who need some extra assistance in their learning, or to assess reading skills for a teacher who can then tailor instruction to the class needs. Volunteers build things, like decks. They fill holes, cut grass and landscape, run wires and install fixtures, they paint and organize golf tournaments, coach sports teams and build parade floats, they sort items in a store for reclaimed construction materials.
It's clear that NACE is a community of dedicated people passionate about the work we do. A volunteer who can see that peeling an apple, or attending a meeting translates into lights on in classrooms, financial assistance for those who need it, or the lesson that cuts to the heart of a child and convicts them that God loves them and they have a specific purpose for His glory in the world.... that is a cheerful giver. The blessing of doing that shoulder to shoulder spreads our vision as a community and deepens our commitment to Christ in Education. It connects us in Christ.
As you read this, please do two things: 1) thank God for the many people in our midst who cheerfully give of their time to keep our schools running effectively and affordably, and 2) consider the upcoming tasks that never seem to end or present themselves, and decide what you might be able to do to connect yourself to others in Christ. Some are inspiring and some are mundane, but all of them connect us to the heart of what we do: teach kids to Live for Jesus, Learn for Life, and Serve with Gladness.
2 Corinthians 9: 6-7 " The point is this: whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver."
Collaboration
Remembering
where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy.
O divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console,
to be understood as to understand,
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive,
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Friday, October 20, 2017
Complaining or Communicating?
Last week I wrote about compassion, how vital it is, but how difficult it can be as well. In light of how our contemporary society works, compassion for those with whom we have a problem or issue is counter-cultural. Our culture tells us that when we disagree or have an issue with someone, the proper way to go about it is to either a) put up a public and vocal protest about it (social media makes this even easier than ever before), or b) to 'suck it up' and move on.
Honesty and Integrity, as well as collaboration, are other traits we are looking to deliberately focus on and develop in our students and in our community. A few times a year, I hear the phrase: "We didn't want to be the complainers....." or "I would have told you about this sooner, but I didn't want to bother you...." I know the principals hear this as well.
If we have an issue with someone, one of the easiest things we can do is discuss it with close friends. While this can be healthy, we need to watch closely that our discussions remain guarded to protect everyone. If there is something bothering you, as soon as possible, take it up with those involved. Problems are dealt with appropriately, quickly, and the right information can come to light.
Proper handling of conflict or issues is an act of compassion, an act of collaboration, and an act of integrity. While it may seem odd to suggest that complaining or stating that something isn't right is compassionate, the alternative is far worse. If we allow conflict or issues to fester or spread without being dealt with, they can become toxic, fodder for gossip, and destructive to anyone involved as well as to our community.
Attached to today's newsletter is NACE's dispute reconciliation policy. This policy applies and involves everyone in our community - employees, parents, supporters, and board members. Please review it so that you know how to issues should they arise, but also so that you can encourage others to deal with them appropriately. 'Have you talked to _____________ about this?' should be a quick reminder to one another to resolve problems. Matthew 18 provides sound advice from scripture not only to settle disputes but also to proactively protect the Christian community from itself as we know we all fall short at times. Speaking the truth in love is a habit that goes a long way to developing character and a growing healthy community of learning that is connected in Christ.
Compassion
Compassion seems simple. On the surface, compassion is a trait in which we feel sorry for someone and try to help. This wouldn't be wrong, but there is so much beyond a simple empathetic posture that is embodied in a character trait of compassion.
As we move through some of our 'Connected in Christ' character traits, they align well with how we understand the course of God's redemptive hand in history (some of you will know this as the creation-fall-redemption framework). God's creation gives us reason to be curious and to delight in his work. Our story takes a turn, however.... because of humanity's decision to disobey and to move away from God, we live in broken relationship with Him and with the world. There is hurt, there is pain, there is suffering. In fact, scripture describes the world as 'groaning' under the weight of our sin (Romans 8:12)
This calls for a response. God showed His compassion by designing a rescue plan for us and for his world. He calls us to exhibit also this compassion for creation, and for one another.
Students and teachers deal with this on a regular basis in their classrooms. On some level, it is easy to have compassion for the person who is seeking help and wanting to be assisted. It makes us feel good to help. What is it like to have compassion for the person who doesn't want or feel they need it? How about the person we don't know or feel threatened by? So much of our world right now lives in a tension of fear and negativity because we don't take the time to identify with and understand one another. It's easier to label what we don't know or understand as 'wrong' or 'harmful' or even 'unchristian' when in fact we haven't taken the time to understand their story.
Compassion is a response to pain and suffering and conflict. We may have caused it, or we may see it unfold in front of us. The next time your kids (or you!) see hurt or pain in the world.... ask them 'How can we be compassionate here?' Sometimes it will be obvious. Sometimes the answer may be "I think I just need to better understand who that person is and what they are dealing with...."
We live in a broken and fallen world, but God is active in it around us and through us. How can we complete this learning target: "I can show compassion by _____________."
I look forward to hearing more stories of surprise from our students, teachers, and you about how compassion is being expressed within and beyond our learning community.
Friday, September 15, 2017
Curiosity
In an article she wrote for Chrisitan Parenting, Sharon Miller reminds us that our task "...is to raise children who want God. When our kids inherit a holy curiosity, they will never stop exploring their infinite Creator and never stop asking for more of him." It's why our Community Character traits begin with curiosity. It is that posture of excitement and desire for more that sets us up as people who seek God and to fill His creation. It is central to our task not only as guardians and rulers of creation, it is also central to our need to know God more and to connect with Him. In order to be a student, we need to be curious; and God, knowing that, built it right in!
Wednesday, September 13, 2017
Connected in Christ
Why do you send your kids to a Christian School? Why is Christian Education important? What do you hope for in Christian Education?
These important questions revealed some important data which included a number of things that we would all expect: We knew that the foundational world-and-life view that keeping Christ at the centre of all we study was important. We also knew that we all desire a safe and loving place for our students where we know that they will be cared for as children of God and image bearers of Him.
One other item surfaced loud and clear at that time: You had a deep desire to see your children live out their Christian faith in a real and tangible way - not just as head knowledge, but as heart and hands knowledge as evidenced by character and service.
As a teaching staff, we dove deep into this concept to uncover what character traits we could intentionally develop over the long term that would not only encourage deeper learning and academic excellence but ones that would model Christ and discover His story in our lives.
You will hear more about these six character traits over the coming months and years. We don't intend just to 'teach' them to our kids. We intend to make them central to who we are and how we do things as an entire learning community - entering with Curiosity, and responding in Joy. Working with Compassion, Collaboration, Integrity, and Perseverance in all that we do.
In living and working together, we are connected together, to God's world, and in Christ.
Blessings to all of you as we enter into a new year of living, learning and serving together to God's glory!
Monday, May 1, 2017
Helping the Kingom come about
The title of this week's ED-you-cate comes from a chapter of a book by Henri Nouwen called 'A Spirituality of Fundraising'. Nouwen is one of my 'heroes of the Christian faith' and I have grown to love his writing over the years. This little book is no exception. It was required reading for an administrator's conference I attended last week, where we were inspired and encouraged to articulate our organization's mission in the world, and how that related to the kingdom of God.
I spent the next evening with a large group of 'friends of NACE' at our annual board fundraising dinner event, and shared for devotions the following passage from Nouwen's book:
Fundraising is a very concrete way to help the kingdom of God come about. What is the kingdom? Jesus is clear that if we make the kingdom our first priority, "all these other things will be given you as well' (Matt. 6:33, NJB). The kingdom is where God provides for all that we
need. It is the realm of sufficiency where we are no longer pulled here and there by anxiety about having enough. 'So do not worry about tomorrow; tomorrow will take care of itself" (Matt. 6:34, NJB). Jesus also compares the kingdom to a mustard seed," which, at the time of its sowing, is the smallest of all the seeds on earth.Yet once it is sown it grows into the biggest shrub of them all and puts out big branches so that the birds of the air can shelter in its shade' (Mark 4:31–32, NJB).
Even a seemingly small act of generosity can grow into something far beyond what we could ever ask or imagine (see Eph. 3:20)—the creation of a community of love in this world, and beyond this world, because wherever love grows, it is stronger than death (1 Cor. 13:8). So when we give ourselves to planting and nurturing love here on earth, our efforts will reach out beyond our own chronological existence. Indeed, if we raise funds for the Creation of a community of love, we are helping God build the kingdom. We are doing exactly what we are supposed to do as Christians. Paul is clear about this: "Make love your aim" (1 Cor. 14:1, NJB). (Nouwen, 2004)
That evening, amongst the great service(thank you, NACE board!), excellent food, and fantastic entertainment it was obvious we were in a community of love, and that they, in turn, were supporting our schools as communities of love. The kingdom of God depends on small and large gifts alike, and He will bless those far beyond what we could ever imagine. With your time, your talents, your resources, and your finances give knowing that you are a part of the Kingdom, where we are making love our aim!!!
Monday, April 24, 2017
Everything is different, everything is the same
The grandparents have changed a great deal as well! One image that will stick in my mind for a long time is that of a visiting grandparent couple taking a 'selfie' on their smartphone with their grandchild in the classroom. At the moment, it was a major mental shift for me, but also seemed so normal and natural. As they looked around, they noticed other things that are 'different': the desks and chairs aren't all in rows, there isn't necessarily a textbook and workbook for each subject, technology is present but not front and centre, the principal and teachers are not filling positions of authority over students but of relationship WITH students.
"Why is it a good thing that things have changed?", I asked.
"The kids are at the centre." was the answer.
Simple, yet equally profound. This will stick with me for a while.
Just as nearly every workplace in our society has changed (some dramatically) over the past decade, so has the education work/learning place. I've had a few visiting parents come in to see JKCS or CCS, hoping to give to their children "the same experience I had as a kid." It's an interesting conversation that ensues. "Everything is different, and everything is the same," is one of my answers. We do not 'do' education the same way I experienced it when I attended Christian School. Students engage in learning experiences very differently than the traditional teacher-directed format of the past. However, we still teach and weave through everything we do that God is the LORD of all, that Christ is the saviour of the world, and the Spirit is active in our lives and in our everyday. In fact, decades of experience and research has taught us new ways to make this relevant and alive for students.
What is so exciting for me? That fact that grandparents are encouraging us to forge forward. They have seen generations of change and perhaps aren't so afraid of it. They certainly are passionate and excited about our current growth at NACE and the ways in which they see their grandchildren thriving. To God be the glory in each new day, with each new change, and in the ways in which we continue to seek Him in all that we do.
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The Christian Courier, a Reformed Biweekly publication, released a special Christian Education Issue on April 24, 2017. The whole issue is a great discussion about Christian Schooling in Canada. One column, in particular, was a fantastic read. By Kathy Vandergrift entitled 'School bullying: Zero-tolerance to mutual respect'. I have included it at the end of today's print version of Journey/Connection. If you are reading a digital version, you can access it here: https://goo.gl/S9ApgG
Tuesday, April 18, 2017
Growing and Stretching our Faith
These weeks place us in contact with all kinds of people. Some are our dedicated founders - those who worked to establish our schools. Some are family supporters, excited to see how Christian Schools are working in the lives of their children, nieces, nephews, and grandchildren. Still others are new to Christian Education - just beginning to see what happens at John Knox and Covenant, and by extension, at Christian Schools rooted in the richness of the gospel woven through every moment of the day.
One of the lessons that I'm continuing to learn is that we are always on stage. Some of the most rewarding conversations that I've had over the past days, weeks, and months are with those who have recently discovered Christian Schools and the unique blessing that we enjoy. One of those was last week with a grandparent who shared with me that she just wished that she had known about Christian Schools when her own children were school aged. She is now excited to support the decision that her children have made to become a part of the Christian Education Community, and sharing that with anyone she meets.
I, and I think we, need to remember that there are opportunities every day, and especially in our own Christian Communities. The good news of God's grace is relevant always, and applicable at all times. There are always those who are struggling with their faith, those who are new to the message of the gospel, and those who are discovering Christ's work in the world for the first time.
Christian Education doesn't stop at grade 8, at grade 12, at post-secondary studies, or ever. Our faith is never at a state of completion or arrival. It is always growing, always stretching, always renewing not only so that we can share the good news, but because we are presented with the opportunity to do so!!
"But my life is worth nothing to me unless I use it for finishing the work assigned me by the Lord Jesus—the work of telling others the Good News about the wonderful grace of God." - Acts 20:24
Monday, April 10, 2017
Walking from Palm Sunday to Good Friday
Monday, April 3, 2017
Leadership Wisdom and Faith
Friday, March 31, 2017
Who is your 'Woman at the Well'?
Monday, March 6, 2017
Redefining Fair and the Value of a Mistake
As we arrive at the end of second term, here are two thoughts about growth and change in our place of learning:
Fairness rarely means sameness. More often, fair means everyone gets what they need, not everyone gets the same thing.
We find ourselves working with this truth often at school. A real sign of growth in perception of others for our students is realizing that everyone’s life, their ability to learn and contribute in different ways, and each person’s gifts and talents are unique to them. Each student is dearly loved, uniquely made, and specifically equipped by God for his purposes with them. Great things happen in a community of learners when that is understood.
Mistakes are the keys to a student’s learning.
In learning as in life, things don’t always go the way we wish they would. Especially the first time.
This is true for our students as well; the greatest potential for them to learn may well be to re-visit the places where they did not find success the first time. A helpful analogy I’ve heard is an airline pilot who first perfects the art of a good landing in a flight simulator environment hundreds of times, then moves to real-life situations under the watch full eye of an experienced pilot, all the while learning from mistakes made. Only when those processes are practiced to high level of skill does s/he attempt a landing solo.
A huge potential barrier to student learning is the negative stigmatism of a mistake, or methods of evaluation and assessment that frequently lead students to be quick to compare to others and their results. Never arriving at the reflective spot of looking at their own learning with an eye toward growth is a lost opportunity.
We pray that our students’ lives are full of learning about all of God’s world, including themselves as learners. SJ
Monday, February 27, 2017
It's all about the learning
Thursday, February 23, 2017
So what do the teachers learn anyway?
Monday, February 13, 2017
Messy families
Tuesday, February 7, 2017
The Character of Justice
Monday, January 30, 2017
By your words and your actions...
Young and Old
On Tuesday and Thursday this week, we invite families interested in Christian Education to spend some time with us in the evening, introducing our schools, our vision, and what those look like each day. There are some that are looking to transfer into the older grades, but the majority of attendees are looking to see how their four- or five-year-old child will function and thrive in our schools. (If you know of someone that should be there, direct them to our website for full information and encourage them to just have a look!)
Front and centre are our Kindergarten programs where children are respected and valued as God's unique creations, learning about and experiencing God's love for them and how to respond to that amazing love. Our Kindergarten programs provide a literacy rich, stimulating, and safe environment that meets the needs of each child in his or her physical, social, emotional, cognitive, and spiritual development.
Our kindergarten students eventually grow up and into 12- and 13-year-olds, and our educational programs grow along with them. One highlight for our grade 7 and 8 students is the leadership development that happens on our annual Pioneer Camp trip. (NACE is there all week - JKCS from Monday to Wednesday and CCS from Wednesday to Friday!) We have partnered with Inter-Varsity for the past number of years to work out a program that "is designed to help students develop leadership and interpersonal skills while promoting a greater appreciation of the environment they live in and the benefits of being physically active." Pioneer camps specialize in partnering with schools to develop a program that is designed to grow and challenge students and to help achieve learning objectives. They are committed to the transformation of youth, students and graduates into fully committed followers of Jesus Christ.
From the moment they step foot in our schools as eager and nervous four-year-olds to the day they graduate confidently on their way to high school, we work with our students to unpack the marvels not only in creation, but also the skills and abilities that God has blessed them with so that they are equipped to serve in His Kingdom.
Please pray this week for each step of our schools' programs, from the beginning in Kindergarten to the culmination in grade 8... that we would honour and glorify our Lord with and through our students and their growth as His children.