Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Wisdom through Listening

This past week I was able to rejoin head-of-school colleagues and faculty from the Van Lunen Center for Executive Management in Christian Schools in Scottsdale, Arizona.  I am honoured to have been one of twenty chosen for this intense program to learn from peers, faculty, and presenters who are at the leading edge of their field.  I am taking away more than I can quantify in this space here and would love to talk with you about it in more detail sometime. One of the more poignant 'learnings' from this past week was not in a formal learning session but came from an experience outside of the classroom at the encouragement of one of my mentors. 
The setting in Arizona is a retreat centre behind which lies a labyrinth, among other prayer chapels, settings, and stations of the cross.  The labyrinth is a physical setting that has been used for many hundreds of years and has been designed to lead people into a time of intentional prayer, not only speaking to God but listening for His words and direction.
Too often my (our?) prayer lives consist of time where we speak our praise, thanks, confession, and bring forward our requests, as God has commanded. (Philippians 4:6).  We do a lot of talking, but not a lot of listening.  I'm guilty of this.  The book of Proverbs is filled with advice to the wise: to listen (1:5, 12:15, 19:20....)  Confession time for me:  I like to talk and need to try to stop to listen.
My time in contemplative prayer at this retreat centre in the labyrinth, seeking God's guidance was a reminder of how easy it is to NOT hear God's voice if we aren't listening.
Life is busy.  Sometimes it seems too busy to stop and listen.  Let me encourage you to stop, to listen, to be open to God's words.  He may speak to you, as he has to me, with words you don't expect.  As I walked in the labyrinth in prayer and praise, God was able to cut through the noise that is often in my life to speak... because I was listening.  It is crucial that as a leader of a school association that I spend that time seeking wisdom from God by listening.  In your leadership roles whether at work, at home, at church, it is important for you as well.
May God continue to speak to us, and may we as a school community, listen intently for wisdom that only He can give!

People and Passion

I want to use this space to give you another quick update on our strategic planning initiative.  Already this year, a sub-committee has worked hard to re-think and re-state our mission and vision for NACE.  A number of new proposals have made their way through, along with a re-examination of our core values.  We could have begun just strategizing new projects, but without a re-commitment and statement of who we are, and what we are doing, these projects would lack the focus that they need to be really effective.  Very soon, the board hopes to approve a Mission and Vision statement.

We are also identifying people within our community that can help with strategic planning.  These people will need to have a heart for NACE and Christian education.  Alan Pue, in "Rethinking Strategic Planning for Chrisitan Schools" states that they must be people of 'Character, Commitment, Competence, Compatibility, and Chemistry'.  Essentially, they need to be excellent Christian character, have 'skin in the game', have gifts and abilities to offer strategic planning, be cooperative in a team and be able to work well with multiple perspectives even if they disagree.  Sounds like a big qualification list.  We know that we have people in our community who are gifted in this way and that God will use them to help uncover His plans for NACE in the future.  How will we know we have the right people?  They will display passion.  A Passion for Christ and a passion for the work put before us as a school.
If you know of someone who displays these characteristics, please pass their name on to me for submission to our nominating group.

Above all, please continue to pray for our planning work that supports and builds schools that seek to inspire students to love, learn, lead in God's world.

Uncovering God's Vision

In our family devotions, we are following a series that has us work through a yearly cycle of the church calendar.  During each season, there are different ways in which we prepare ourselves for a time of devotion.  During the Advent season, we pull an extra chair or set an extra place at the table in anticipation of the coming King.  He hasn't arrived at our devotion time.... yet. 
I wonder what it was like for the people of Israel to continue to wait for the long-promised and longed for Messiah.  I ordered something on Amazon the other day and was forced to wait 48 hours for its arrival.  Clearly, many of us have lost what it means to wait.  We can have what we want or need generally right now.
Not so with the coming of Christmas.  I enjoy talking with our students about the coming of Christmas, and no matter what age (JK through grade 8), there is a shared sense of longing and waiting (sometimes patiently, often not) for the coming of the holiday.  
In the same way, we continue to wait and long for Christ's return.  We are broken, we experience pain, suffering, sin in a multitude of ways.  While Christ has not yet returned, we still prepare.  In our home, we have put up the Christmas tree, we work through advent devotions, we shift to Christmas music.  Although Christmas is not here yet, we live in such a way as to both anticipate it and also to celebrate its arrival.
What are we doing in the advent of Christ's return?  It will take perseverance, compassion, and integrity to wait and work as His servants, but we know that we do and will experience JOY in the knowledge that our world is in God's hands, and that He entrusts us to continue His work.

Make Room

It's busy.  Really busy.  Some of it is good busy, some of it not-so-good-busy, some of it just necessary busy.  I'm sure most of you can relate.  So many things that we need to do for upcoming events (and Christmas programs!!!), family visits, planning for the new year, etc etc etc.
It's almost as if we were in the hustle and bustle of Bethlehem so many years ago.  I've had the privilege of visiting various re-enactments of the Christmas setting at churches over the years (an excellent one at Calvary Gospel Church in Beamsville, if you get a chance to go).  What I appreciate at these events is the reminder that Bethlehem at that time was CRAZY BUSY.  They were not normally equipped to have all of the line of David come into town at the orders of the government at the time.  They were doing all they could just to meet the demand, the necessary, the good busy, and the not-so-good-busy.  Sound familiar.
Along comes a couple in rather desperate need of a place to stay with nothing but apologetic looks at best, or annoyance at worst.
Now, in 2017, almost 2018, how am I receiving the coming Messiah?  Who is at my door asking to please have a place to stay?  Is it Christ himself asking for space in my life?  Is it someone in physical or emotional or spiritual need just asking 'Do you have room for me/us?'.
Who am I saying 'no, sorry' to?
Ignatius Loyola scripted a prayer for just such a time as this - a reminder to me, a reminder to you.... to make room this season:

Lord, help me to make room for you this Advent. Help me to clear out every nook and cranny of my heart and soul and to let go of all things that are not of you. Come into my heart. Give me the grace to respond to you freely and trust you completely. Fill me with your love and your grace. I know that you are all I really need, so please help me to choose you—every time. Let every movement of my heart and soul bring greater glory to you, Lord. Amen.

I pray this for me, and for you as you work with your own 'busy' and ensure that you make room for the Saviour of the world... God in the flesh who became one of us to bear our burdens and our sins.

Waiting

In our family devotions, we are following a series that has us work through a yearly cycle of the church calendar.  During each season, there are different ways in which we prepare ourselves for a time of devotion.  During the advent season, we pull an extra chair or set an extra place at the table in anticipation of the coming King.  He hasn't arrived at our devotion time.... yet. 
I wonder what it was like for the people of Israel to continue to wait for the long-promised and longed for Messiah.  I ordered something on Amazon the other day, and was forced to wait 48 hours for its arrival.  Clearly, many of us have lost what it means to wait.  We can have what we want or need generally right now.
Not so with the coming of Christmas.  I enjoy talking with our students about the coming of Christmas, and no matter what age (JK through grade 8), there is a shared sense of longing and waiting (sometimes patiently, often not) for the coming of the holiday.  
In the same way, we continue to wait and long for Christ's return.  We are broken, we experience pain, suffering, sin in a multitude of ways.  While Christ has not yet returned, we still prepare.  In our home, we have put up the Christmas tree, we work through advent devotions, we shift to Christmas music.  Although Christmas is not here yet, we live in such a way as to both anticipate it and also to celebrate its arrival.
What are we doing in the advent of Christ's return?  It will take perseverance, compassion, and integrity to wait and work as His servants, but we know that we do and will experience JOY in the knowledge that our world is in God's hands, and that He entrusts us to continue His work.